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Location: Europe & UK
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I had to tell some people, "sorry I'm late with this but I've been sick and I'm totally exhausted" and you know what - people were helpful and understanding!!!!! That's big for me. . Thank you for being here! Whew. After I get back home next weekend, I will do the doctor's fasting blood test and we will see. I did get one sarcastic e-mail from cousin who is suffering from cancer, but that's ok. It's super important to me that everyone else is on task without my "herding" them: it's a revelation for me that people can co-operate without being forced to do so. Yay!!!! I'm glad to hear that your new approach worked for you. A wave to @sarahsweets also - love to you both this morning! Saidso __________________ *"Fierce <-> Reality"* oh god I am struggling today, help me to remember how to stay connected and human! remember: the nut shell against human predators and my own fear! |
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TishaBuv
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Member Since May 2019
Location: KS
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I find that managing anyone, even myself is difficult. Most of my meltdowns are when I am disappointed or upset because things didn't go how I wanted them to go. I have fits of anger and rage. I never physically harm anyone, I mostly yell, scream or slam things around, often breaking them but not meaning to. These meltdowns usually conclude with calling myself stupid and often end with me being embarrassed. Happens more than it should, especially around my husband.
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Roamer1115
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Member Since May 2019
Location: KS
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I find that managing anyone, even myself is difficult. Most of my meltdowns are when I am disappointed or upset because things didn't go how I wanted them to go. I have fits of anger and rage. I never physically harm anyone, I mostly yell, scream or slam things around, often breaking them but not meaning to. These often end with me being embarrassed or feeling like I am stupid.
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