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Default Dec 10, 2007 at 03:43 PM
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Happy Monday, all!

Just curious about this question-I dated an older guy -18 mnths for six months in '02; we broke up but remained friends.

He was a wonderful guy-sweet, gentle, caring but he died unexpectedly on 7/1/06 of a "catastrophic heart attack." He had just turned 49 in March.

After several talks with people and my priest, I feel I'm moving on but miss him terribly.

I've been wondering lately about dating again but I DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED! I like my single life, my little shrine at home.....

I don't know....... Is it possible to have only one "right one?"

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Default Dec 10, 2007 at 04:36 PM
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Oh, I'm sorry about your loss OCD. How awful Is it possible to have only one "right one?"

But no, I don't believe that there is only ONE "right one" for each of us. I've felt that deeply about at least 3 people in my life (my husband being one of them, of course, and the best one!).

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Default Dec 14, 2007 at 08:35 PM
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I think that if you find someone that is perfect for you- and they pass on, it is possible to find someone else who is perfect. Although, it is not possible, for example, to decide you are with "the one" but have found another "the one" because there can only be ONE one at one time..
wow I'm confusing myself.
Long story short- Get out there girl! There is someone out there, whos looking for you!
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