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Dec 19, 2020 at 11:22 PM
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I am a 17 year old female. I think I have a variety of undiagnosed mental health issues and as I get older Its declining. My mom doesn't believe I need help because she believes there is nothing wrong with me she believes I am only attention seeking. I only have the support from my loving boyfriend but I don't want to constantly bother him with my worries and rants. There are some things I dont want to tell him, fears I dont want to tell him for personal reasons. I dont have friends and don't really think I need friends. I am very introverted and find it extremely hard communicating socially and making friends, but I am also happier with my boyfriend and family. I don't have money nor the consent for a therapist. I can't drive yet and am at a lost at what to do. I need help from a counselor or therapist. I want to feel good again.
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Dec 20, 2020 at 05:45 PM
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I don't know where in Calif you are, but I'm here, too. When I was 17 I went to Planned Parenthood and asked about counseling help. They referred me to a clinic and I ended up seeing a therapist for free. He was a good therapist, too. Another place that might help you out is Health and Human Services, wherever you live. A third idea is any teen outreach in your location. For example, in my region there's Diogenes Youth Services. If someone calls them, they can offer referrals that are free. The opportunities are there, I'm absolutely sure, but it takes serious commitment to stick with it until you find someone. I think it's terrific that you are reaching out for help! I wish you all the luck in the world 
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Dec 20, 2020 at 05:50 PM
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btw, when I was 17 and sought help my mom resisted it because she was convinced that I was telling the therapist about her, and about shite that was going on in my home. I am not saying that's why your mom is resistant to the idea of you getting help, but it's true of some parents...they're afraid they'll be blamed, or they're keeping secrets they don't want told. Just a thought.
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Dec 20, 2020 at 06:13 PM
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