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Member Since Jan 2023
Location: Richmond, VA
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Jan 12, 2023 at 03:08 PM
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I'm a new mom, work-full time, and take care of everything in our household. Every single day I sit and wonder: when are my needs going to matter? When is my husband going to help take care of me for a change?
Listen, I get that women are strong. We can do anything and everything. Honestly, I think we're penalized for it because we're then expected to do it all. I'm treading on angry and bitter. |
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Jan 13, 2023 at 03:05 AM
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That sounds like a lot to cope with. Do you talk to your husband about helping out more? It sounds like you’re doing more around the home/childcare than him.
Oh and in answer to your question our needs matter very much, even when we are parents. |
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Member Since Jul 2022
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May 05, 2023 at 10:02 PM
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Check out narcissism. If your partner cared about you, he would step it up.
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Member Since May 2023
Location: lacey wa
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May 26, 2023 at 12:13 AM
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I understand how you feel. It can be so hard when your trying to hold it together but it feels nearly impossible.
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