I hate the constant victim blaming and whataboutism from men

I’ve stumbled upon sites from Reddit and Quora and they are the most toxic bs I’ve ever stumbled upon. It is about these specific guys who always complain about how nobody cares about men and boys and therefore they should not care for women’s problems. Also I hate that traditional women are whining about how “toxic” feminism is “brainwashing” women to not want a man when they do and it’s apparently a lie and ruining traditionalism:

https://www.reddit.com/r/malementalh...wonder_why_so/

Why don’t women want to take care of their man anymore? - Quora

Why don’t women care about how men feel? - Quora

Why does no one think or care about men? - Quora

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/...you_dont_care/



https://www.linkedin.com/posts/shayr...584458752-aC7I

https://www.google.com/search?q=soci...ile-gws-wiz-hp

https://steemit.com/single/@jimmythe...er-men-anymore

Why does no one think or care about men? - Quora

https://aninjusticemag.com/its-wrong...e-2801d67dd913

https://m.facebook.com/groups/411473...7843615507860/

But the ones that infuriate me the most is the victim blaming men do when women suffer from domestic violence or worse. They tend to blame women for their actions and claim women did something to make them abuse them. Here are some of the (infuriating) comments:

“I took really good care of my wife everyday and every night .. I was there for her during tough times , I pampered her on a daily basis. I tried communicating . Then one beautiful day I discover she has been cheating a little over a year . I decided to give it a second try one year later she’s back at it , and with the same guy 😲. Perhaps that is why we don’t take care of females”

“For the same reason many women treat men poorly.”

“Because most women only want a tiny percentage of men”

“These days we have what you call modern women. Women want men to be traditional but they also want equality. If you want equality then you must take care of yourself. You cannot expect a man is to be traditional if the woman is not going to be traditional. If you want someone to take care of you then you have to be able to receive the care. Women these days say they don't need a man. All they need a man for is his sperm. They can make more money than men and they can live without a man. So when women are saying these things they're pushing men away and men don't even want to marry anymore. This is why the divorce rate is the highest it's ever been and the marriage rate is as low as it's ever been. Women have no desire to be with a man anymore. Men don't want to date anymore or marry anymore. This is the new way that the powers that be or I guess the Illuminati have separated more people. They've made blacks hate whites and reds hate blues and now men hate women and women hate men. All the values have gone.”

“for the same reasons many women treat men badly.If you've experienced a lot of them first hand,im sorry to say but your taste in men may be lacking”

“Myself personally I take care of a woman if I had on . But you woman these days don't appreciate **** ! Your always comparing what she got . Or look at what her man got . And that breaks a man down and puts him in a frame of mind that well she doesn't appreciate what I give her than I'm not going to do **** for her. But when we are doing all the things we think you want and need it's never enough you always want more . Then the withholding sex comes in. Do you realize that when youran is doing the right thing ALL YOUR GIRLFRIENDS SEE THAT !! And they are a bunch of piranhas just waiting for you to make him feel unwanted and unappreciated and they come in and start flirting with your man . That man would normally pay no mind to these other women but that voice of you to saying “TO NEED THIS AND LIKE IT K AT WHAT SHE GOT YOU NEED TI DO ME RIGHT ILL FIND A MAN THAT CAN “.That man years that and all the sudden your help r best friend that's been flirting with him for him and it's YOUR FAULT !!

PLUS WOMANS LIB YOU WANTED TO BE TREATED EQUAL GET YOUR OWN ****!!!”

“In order to receive one must first be willing to give. It's the most basic rule and first lesson taught to each of us as children. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. This goes for anything. Love, respect, generosity, kindness, hate and abuse. Everything is subject to this universal law. It's the law of karma and the law of attraction. You get what you give. It really is that simple.”

“For the same reason ladies don't want to take care of gentlemen.”

“Tired of yall playing with all of us and using us .. everything has a price. ***, gas, or grass.”

“If you want a partner who will take care of you, consider what you bring to the table. What will they get in exchange? Then look for men who fit what you're looking for, both in what they offer you and in what they want from you.”

““Men”, really all men? All the billions of men on this planet don’t take care of women? This is what this question applies you are meaning and if this is what you are meaning then your question is sexist and misandrist.

So why don’t the men that don’t take care of women take care of women anymore?

Well….

Women have fighted for equal rights for a very long time now and women can’t have the advantages of the 1950s lifestyles and todays society but not be prepared to compromise in anything. Women have told men for decades they don’t need men to look after them so men have stepped back. You women have told us men not to interfere and now us men have finally stepped back many (not all) of you women don’t like it. Sorry, but women can’t have it both ways.
Toxic feminism. It is everywhere. You can’t turn on the TV, go on social media, pick up a magazine or even talk to many people these days without deeply ingrained toxic feminism being projected towards men these days. It is everywhere in our society and has out of control.
The way a lot of women (not all) treat men like total trash just because we are men. We must be bad because we are men, that is how we are treated even when we have done nothing wrong. All we have to do is say “Hi” to a woman the wrong way and we are hurled with abuse from some women.
The toxic women are always right men are always wrong attitude in society. If a man and a woman have a problem with each other everyone just assumes the man is at fault even when the woman is the abuser, we don’t care about a man’s side of the story. I had a woman try to reverse over me with her car but I didn’t report her because of our toxic attitude towards men never being able to be victims.
The fact that very few women truly care about men and make fun and belittle us when we do show our feelings and expressions.
The fact 80% of suicides are men and yet we simply do not care one bit. These men are friends, fathers, sons, brothers etc yet we don’t care.
I am sure there are other examples as well but I will leave it there.

No, I don’t hate women at all. I only hate women that treat men like trash.

This is why men have become less caring about women and you can’t blame us when we have to put up with the above day in and day out. It is a reaction from us men being treated like total trash and no matter what we do we can never do anything right.

Simply put anything with a penis between its legs we simply don’t care one bit about. Anything with a vagina we have the toxic attitude of it is superior and we care about greatly.

It is like if I stand there poking a bear with a stick constantly there is only so long that bear is going to take it until it gets fed up of how it is being treated, well men are simply fed up. Maybe if we treated men nicely we men wouldn’t be giving up. I mean we have been told to leave you women alone, we have listened and now we are doing what you women said. If that is not what you wanted that is you women’s, you women should have been honest.”

“Did you do anything to earn that?, or you just want to be taken care of because you exist. You have a Father that should have done these things for you.. Find a strong and powerful leader who knows how to take care of his Woman. Dutifully follow and listen to his instructions he will take care of all your needs( Physically, emotionally, spiritually).. Nothing is free Woman. If you want the benefits of being with a Man. You have to work for Him. God made you smart and intelligent pick an excellent Man with excellent benefits you LL be set for life provided you are following Him.”

“Because you all go out with boys a real man takes care of everything of his, you need to start going out with older Men”

“Why should we? Are you taking care of us? If so, then such a reciprocal arrangement is commonly known as marriage. In such an arrangement, each party is expected to do literally everything in their power to ensure that their partner is being cared for. Essentially, nothing has changed as far as marriage is concerned.

What you're seeing is fewer people choosing to take on that obligation. Logically, the most likely reason is that people do not believe that they will get out of the arrangement as much as they would put in.

This can be due to self-centered behaviors being more rampant, particularly amongst women. It turns out, however, that these women who are now free to do everything a man can, don't want to do the things men do… and nobody was surprised.

As it turns out, genders indeed have roles. Of course, there will always be exceptions. But in the end, somebody has to wash the dishes.

So what we’re observing now is a feminist backlash against what seemed to be such a positive thing (and in some ways it was) that was just taken too far and now our society is reeling with what to do about it.”

This is disgusting! It’s like abusive men try to make up so many excuses and then twist it against women and make it their fault. “What does SHE have to offer?”, “she only wants bad men”, “she did something to make him hurt her”, “why should we take care of women when they want to take advantage of us?” are all examples of victim blaming and DARVO (Deny-Attack-Reverse Victim and Offender)

This is also the most incel/nice guy behavior I’ve ever seen, and it shows! They love to complain that women want to be independent but apparently don’t want “responsibilities”, which is hilarious because that says a lot more about them than the women they want to “own”. It’s all disgusting and needs to stop!

Anyways, that’s all I have to say. Sorry if I’m dragging this for too long. Just want this off my chest.