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Mar 27, 2008 at 01:11 PM
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How long does it usually take to "get there" on your own?
...Because for me, it's usually literally under a minute. __________________ A life all mine Is what I choose At the end of my days... -The Gathering, "A Life All Mine" The Bite-Sized Truth |
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Mar 27, 2008 at 02:24 PM
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That varies by age, how often you masturbate, how often you have sex, and personal characteristics. Wait until you're in your mid- to late-20's and 30's when women are in their prime
 You just think you're fast now. My husband and I have a joke; when he winks, I "get there" 
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Mar 27, 2008 at 02:53 PM
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ive never been able to get there on my own. i cant even get there with someone else going down on me. for me it has to be the real thing. now then.... i can go in like 2 seconds haha. i find the spot and its done lol
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Mar 27, 2008 at 03:17 PM
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It varies for me....... 3 to 7 minutes - depending on the last I was satisfied and if I had been thinking about it or saw something that stirred me into thinking about it.
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Mar 27, 2008 at 11:26 PM
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That helps. I just wasn't sure if that sort of time was weird or not!
But for me, it usually doesn't vary. I mean, it might, but I've never been able to get there when I wasn't ready to beforehand. It just seems like wasted effort so I give up fairly quickly. __________________ A life all mine Is what I choose At the end of my days... -The Gathering, "A Life All Mine" The Bite-Sized Truth |
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Mar 28, 2008 at 01:28 AM
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me..one to 20 mins hhehehe...tho i have no mojo and don't do it, or have so for months.....lol :-)
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Apr 04, 2008 at 01:50 PM
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Depends. Sometimes I can't get there on my own. Sometimes it takes less than 30 seconds...
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Apr 06, 2008 at 03:18 AM
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If i have a vibrating toy, it can take 5 mins, or even 30 seconds. As far as without vibrating toy, it takes much longer.
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Apr 06, 2008 at 11:22 AM
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An odd question for a bunch of women, but how does the time compare for men?
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Apr 06, 2008 at 03:40 PM
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I think men are different one from another too but generally faster? I think since sex is on their minds more and their "spot" is obvious there, outside themselves and doesn't have to be "hunted" for sometimes :-) they'd naturally be quicker. And they have wet dreams and other experiences as boys (going over hills) that feel good so they get the message, kind of like with toilet training and boys tending to get it faster because it's more obvious.
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Apr 06, 2008 at 04:52 PM
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magnasanguis - your age and consequential hormone levels probably have a LOT to do with it.
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Apr 07, 2008 at 09:17 AM
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men are totally quicker naturally, thats why they gotta slow down before they lose it before we do!
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