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Jul 08, 2008 at 01:52 PM
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well.. im 15 this saturday.. but tbh its like i dont even care now. theres so much going on and i cant take it. my grandmas condition is deteriorating, my boyfriends just dumped me because im "frigid" and the whole school year is *****ing and gossiping about me, meaning that im now at the centre of their attention. and tbh.. its just not FAIR. why does all of this happen to me? at the end of last year my best friend left, then i fell out with my other best friend at school and it was like i was in year 7 not knowing anyone again. ive made new friends now.. but i miss the popularity i had before. and now everythings fecked. my familys falling apart, people want to beat me up, my love lifes been screwed, my (now diagnosed) once mild OCD is getting more obsessive and worse and i dont know who to trust. i just want someone to tell me how to not go nuts with all this. L x __________________ I leave the gas on; Walk the alleys in the dark, Sleep with candles burning; I leave the door unlocked.. + im still breathing.. |
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Location: Jersey
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Jul 08, 2008 at 02:22 PM
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I had a really bad time in school. (parents divorced in 10th grade, grandmom had a heart attack, switched schools like 100 times.) I disassociated myself from making friends, not that I was depressed just didn't want to bother with them. I rapped myself into sport (softball) so much that I didn't have time to think about all the crap that was going on. I also enjoyed art and when I was feeling overwhelmed I would paint or drawl. Try not to dwell on everything, concentrate on your grades, getting into a good college and find a hobby that you like and sink yourself into it.
As for the OCD getting worse, I don't know anything about that, you should probably contact your therapist. All the added stress is probably making it worse. Hope this helps, hang in there. __________________ Take me away... a secret place... a sweet escape... Take me away... to brighter days... a higher place... Take me away. |
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Jul 09, 2008 at 05:43 PM
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Hello (((BANANAS))), The main thing is you dont try to start making adult decisions at your age and try to take every day as it comes. You may want to talk to your family about getting counseling to help you move on with all of this happening at one time, uyou are getting overwhelmed, and need an advocate for YOU, while all of the changes are going on within your school and family as well. I hope things get better for you soon (((BANANAS))). PM anytime. Soidhonia
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