Relationship Problems

I have been with my fiance for over a year now. Its been rough. I Love him and know he loves me but all we do is fight. He broke up with me about 7 times in a six month period..twice while pregnant. I was homeless for a while there.

Today, i wanted to make him dinner. He wanted battered hamburger steaks, and said he would show me how to make them. Well we had just put them on and I sat down, and he said, "you're not cooking" I said, I know what IM doing... (there was nothing to do yet, they hadnt even started frying.) he got mad and it ended up him telling me to throw it all away, that since I knew what I was doing, Id have to figure it out on my own, and he wasnt hungry anymore anyway. I went to bed and just woke up.

We fight so much. We have a baby due in three weeks. (My first) I havent felt happy in so long. He keeps saying if we dont stop fighting hes gonna move out cuz it wont be good for our baby.. which I agree with. It just hurts. I cant do anythign to make him happy.

I really need him to be supportive of me..but with three weeks left in this pregnancy, I just dont see that happening.

Anyway, just venting. I cant even cry right now even though thats what I really feel like doing.

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I seriously feel for you and I know what your going through. I went throught the same sort of things with my husband when I was pregnant with my first child. and now 15 years later I have to force myself to be happy. The only advice I can give is stay positive for the baby because it is all about him/her. Do not feel like you have to marry because of the baby.
Good luck / GOD Bless

Hello Leese2008 and welcome to PC! Your fiancé sounds really childish. I know that you need his love and support especially now, but it doesn’t sound like he’s capable of giving it. Is the fighting a new thing? Perhaps brought on by the stress of the baby?

I’d really like to tell you that once the baby is born things will settle down, but you’re heading toward a very stressful time. A new baby can stretch even the healthiest of relationships to the limit. Lack of sleep, privacy, and the added financial burden can really put a lot of stress on your relationship.

Right now there are two people that you have to worry about, you and your baby. He’s an adult and it’s not up to you to make him happy. I don’t know how old you are, but is it possible to move in with a family member that will be able to help you mentally and physically with your newborn?

Either your relationship with him will work out or it won’t but that has to take a back burner to the wonderful, exciting, and exhausting life of being a new parent.

Good luck, I hope that he turns around.