[shinasingh1993]

hi. i am an average medical student. i'm in 1st year of mbbs. i dropped out 3 years to get into a government funded college cause my parents can't afford private collg fees.. I never wanted to be a doctor. i did all this just for my parents... but now m facing the real problem you deal with when u try to please your parents.. I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE STUDYING. i feel like tearing the books , for which i toiled for 3 years..i always wanted to be a singer and dancer..so now i am constantly feeling hopeless... i feel sad all the time. i cry fr the littlest of things. i don't feel homesick but all i want to do is cuddle with my mum and sleep. dats it. i feel like crying just by looking at them. because i knw its not there fault that they want the best for me and i just want to do something else... i don't know what to do.. I feel sad and hopeless and frustrated and still i try to study but to no use.. please help me.. what should i do?

[HockingPastryChef]

Study what you want to study. It is YOUR life. Have a talk to your parents about how you feel and let them know that you want to do what you want and then go get some dancing lessons. Do your own goals not someone else's.

When you do what others tell you to do, you will not be happy.

It's never too late to change the paths you take in life. Goodness... After I do my own goals of baking and owning a bakery for so many years I may start my own art business or even go back to college in my 50's and do something else. I think that would be fun.