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Default Jul 15, 2014 at 01:34 AM
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I am so irritated and feed up with working in fast food it not even amusing all that much any more.I like the people I work with but the pay rate, and the amount of hours I get is barely anything....espically for someone wanting to ge the hell out of an abusive mother's home like I am.

I don't have a ton of options....I want soo badly to get out of my mom's house...she emtionally abusive and its hard to be here and deal with all of that.

and when i do tell her I want to leave she hold the fact that the jeep....I use its not really mine its hers.

so I could not even have that.

she hold money and material postions over my head like a trophy that she has won and look at how ****ing cool I am for it. Omg give me a break.
I love my mother but I really dis like her and how she handles things in her lfe and in mine at times

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Default Jul 15, 2014 at 02:21 AM
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I know the feeling. I work for low pay and not any hours this time of year, it really is hard to make it. Is there anyway you could find something that would pay a bit better? I understand that is hard too because I hate looking for work. I am sorry I am not much help I wish I had better ideas for you. Just know that you are not alone.
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Default Jul 15, 2014 at 10:47 AM
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When I was younger and worked fast food, I held 2/3 jobs at a time. Usually they are close together so you can hop from one to another. I also used work to escape my over-controlling mother. I would have never been able to get out w/one job. I was exhausted and didn't have near as much fun as my friends, but I eventually earned my freedom. Hang in there and Good LUCK!
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Default Jul 16, 2014 at 04:23 PM
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I am trying to look for work and due to my lack of work history it's hard for me to get more hours but I am trying as Best I can thinking of making soaps and apple butter and selling it at farmers market. That and while I look going to the plasma center

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Default Jul 18, 2014 at 02:21 AM
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well I just heard that a local adult shop here in town might need a cashier so I am thinking of going up there in the day on Monday and talking to them about getting a job....

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Default Jul 18, 2014 at 12:40 PM
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good luck with your job search! I understand your frustration! I don't get many hours and my pay sucks. I think to myself "why did I bother getting my degree?" I think the job market sucks these days. Try to stay positive, easier said than done, I know!

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Default Jul 25, 2014 at 05:23 PM
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Sounds like my parents. I work part time, have gaps in my employment, and love my new job. However, it isn't enough hours it's not the pay I did get a raise at work. I am gonna apply for some jobs on campus to get full time and still wanna stay at the part time job. I've been at the job for 5 months now and my check kinda got small because the campus took out for retirement as it is mandatory for all employees.

I am planning my escape to have my own place but with a small check and 25 hrs isn't gonna cut it, found a couple of places for subsidized housing apts and got a few more to look later on. I am not sure how long it takes for the campus to call you back on your application, but this goal is taking too long and been asking myself how long do I have to endure to be their slaves?!
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