[Sufferedindividual]

Hello, I'm not sure if this should be posted here if not my apologies.

Anyway I recently started a new job and I began training with this one woman. At first I thought nothing about it she was nice and I enjoyed working with her. I'm a girl also she's about 41 and I'm 19. All of the sudden I can't stop thinking about going to work to see her. She is really caring and takes the time to help me with work and she is very patient with me while I'm learning this new office job. She is married with three little kids. I've barley known her for a couple weeks and I feel as if I know everything about her. I know where she lives, her Facebook, phone numbers and I also google earth / google mapped her house. I know it wounds strange but I can't stop. If one day she doesn't talk to me much I get upset and ask myself what I did wrong and if I should back off and work with someone else to train me at my job.

I love the way she laughs and talks and she's just an awesome woman and mother. My mom doesn't talk to me much about my day but she does and she says good girl to me all the time. I don't know what is making me feel this way about her and I don't know how to stop.

Any thoughts?

[kaliope]

I think she is probably meeting a need for you that you haven't had met elsewhere. whether it is motherly, mentor or friend she is giving you attention you haven't had in your life but crave, crave so much that you have become obsessed with her. just my idea. think about what those needs may be.

[Sufferedindividual]

Originally Posted by kaliope

I think she is probably meeting a need for you that you haven't had met elsewhere. whether it is motherly, mentor or friend she is giving you attention you haven't had in your life but crave, crave so much that you have become obsessed with her. just my idea. think about what those needs may be.

I think it's a mentor and a friend. Thanks