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Old May 19, 2016, 07:43 PM
Nimitri Nimitri is offline
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Hi all, here again.

You see, today I was working in my tempt when I was asked, literally at the last minute to help find a folder that I achieved (it was in the S file, were it should be but that's beside the point)

The place where they are is the administrator office, which is a small thing where you literally had to move out so one person can go between seats and there I went because that's where they put the boxes with the folders.

So anyway, speaking with my immediate boss, I walked to the box when I misstep (there is this elevation that I always forget is there) and lost my balance. So i got close to my boss and the back of my hand touched her butt.

I felt sick. My god, what I had done? I talked to the secretary about how many problems I got with the step and how dangerous it was to emphasise it was an accident and what happened? and my boss didn't say anything, but what if I lose my job because of this? What if tomorrow I'm negated to enter the hospital and I get in my file sexual harrassment and don't find a job and gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahh

I didn't want to. I really, really, really didn't want to. I nearly smacked my face in the window and I nearly got it again (I was just so damn tired, last time that I study from the sun up and go to work) but I couldn't apologize or said anything and tried to act as if I didn't even realized what happened.

Oh god, I hope i'm not fired or something worse. What if she sends somebody to beat me up? I'm making too much out of nothing? I'm just imagining things? God I want to stop thinking about it.

Last edited by Nimitri; May 19, 2016 at 07:44 PM. Reason: things to say.

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Old May 19, 2016, 09:47 PM
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If it was the back of your hand and you were obviously off balance, i am sure nobody will think badly of it. Its not like you purposely pinched her butt.
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Old May 19, 2016, 10:20 PM
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I agree with unaluna, unless you make a habit of doing it that people realize accidents happen. I wouldnt be suspicious about something like that unless it happened over and over.
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Old May 20, 2016, 10:43 AM
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I don't think you could be fired over such an incident. Maybe your place of employment needs to fix the floor? Put fluorescent tape there or something so you don't fall?
Just keep you the good work. You found the file remember?!!!
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Old May 21, 2016, 05:43 PM
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I would not worry about it. It was an accident. Sometimes in our minds we can mistake embarrassment for fear. I think you're just embarrassed about the incident, which is normal. Don't worry about it.

On a lighter note (hopefully this will make you smile) The same thing happed to Elaine on the Jerry Seinfeld show episode. Jerry was sure e his new girl friend had implants. Well Elaine was at the gym using the steam room, in walks Jerry's girlfriend. Elaine got up to shake her hand, slipped and fell right on top of Jerry's girlfriend and both hands squeezed her breasts. So see it happens to everyone! :-) Just have the confidence of Elaine and you'll be okay. :-) Here is the clip:

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