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Hello! I was laid off over a year ago after 20 years at one company - one of the most difficult events of my life. I was very depressed for about 6 months. Now my mood has lifted somewhat, or at least it is more varied. Sometimes I still feel abandoned and hopeless, and sometimes I feel excited about new possibilities, but I often have a hard time feeling focused on the job search. There are very few good jobs in the area of West Virginia where I live, so I want to work remotely as a freelancer, but that is a new ballgame with a steep learning curve, it seems. There are so many online options, but hard to know which ones are good. I am using freelancing services like Upwork and Guru and Freelancing.com, but still trying to get my portfolios in place to start applying for work.
I guess my point is that it's hard to start your life over again when your situation just makes you moody and depressed and you keep losing your hope and focus. That's why I'm here, I guess. Anyone else going through something similar? Navigating the crazy world of freelancing or just looking for a plain old brick and morter job, so hard to find with good pay these days! Thanks for listening! |
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Hello and welcome to psych central
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Thank you! Happy to have found this active, supportive community!
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Welcome! I've been looking for a job for a year! It's an endurance test, to say the least. Just work on a little each day, then put it aside and take lots of breaks! It takes stamina and determination to get a job... and is not easy process, so I get it. Sorry you lost your job after 20 years -- that's rough. But as you said, it's an exciting new opportunity! Best wishes. (((hugs))))
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The job market is a whole other world compared to 20 years ago! Good luck to you and thanks for the advice! |
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I know.. the market must have changed a ton since then! It's an adjustment for sure, but keep at it, and you'll land something good! And thanks for the well wishes! Keep us posted!!! |
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I'm going through the same thing pretty much. One minute I feel hopeless, then when I see a free class of resume, networking, or go to the local career center in my area, I go to those. Sometimes I feel like they can't assist me either. I feel like anything I do is not good enough. |
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Craigslist is hit or miss -- I just got lucky. I only just check the threads... there should be a notification when someone responds, but I don't think there is. |
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I tried FlexJobs for a while, but they don't have very many remote jobs compared to Upwork, Freelancer, and Guru. I plan to hit these three full force, but I have to get my writing profile together first. I tried admin jobs in my local area, but I had no idea the pay was so low! They don't care if you have a lot of experience; they just offer entry level salaries because someone will take it! Great talking to you and have a good day! |
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Yes, admin jobs can be low paying, except perhaps executive assistant. I used to be an admin for years and earned a pretty low salary. Discouraging. :/ But, GOOD for you for your determination!!!! That's the way to be.. determined and stay the course! Great talking with you, too, and have a fabulous day ahead!! |
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Sending a BIG kudos to you for pursuing your heart's passions and a big toast to your new endeavors. You're going to kick butt out there!!!!! Go for it!!!!
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Yes its hard to stay motivated. Right now I'm going 4 a lead position at my job and still looking for another job. I still get offered less money no thanks I'm asking for more.
I'm in AZ so many contract jobs I may have to roll the dice and take one. I'm getting other offers I'm gonna need to ask recruiters even though I have a lot of transferable skills and don't have the actual experience in xyz what's the possibility of being hired? Would they be willing to help me succeed and advanced my skills? |
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Hi I don't freelance. I started my own firm over a year ago. Really thought I was going to get some contracts; did not happen. I use www.thumbtack.com; it took a bit, but started getting clients.
Perhaps try a temp agency or a head hunter that has contract positions. Also put a business page on Facebook and LinkedIn. they are free. You can show your work and write articles, etc. to get noticed. Having a website helps too. Best of luck |
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