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TishaBuv
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#21
Gosh, this is a tough one. You are definitely being sexually harassed. You don’t want to lose the job. If you confront her, she will most likely get mad and you will likely lose the job.
I recommend avoiding her advances. When she makes a sexual comment, give her a look of displeasure and dismiss it. When she touches you, react by moving your body out of her clutches and expressing with your face displeasure and dismiss it. Hopefully, she’ll get the hint. If she escalates it after that, then I guess the next course of action is to ask her to stop. I hope she isn’t aggressive and vindictive. I’m sorry you are having to deal with this. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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That’s how many women were molested in work places for decades because they were told to keep it quiet. Why is it different with a man? It’s traumatizing. He shouldn’t continue being traumatized. Of course there is a risk of being fired but that’s how these abusers keep their victims in check, keep them silent |
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Chevelle, let us know how things go next time you work snd what course of action you think of taking. I am very sorry you are in such a terrible situation. Sadly it’s not uncommon in a work place.
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#28
I don't think she's just friendly with you.
I think she likes you and she is courting you. If you like it, okay, but if you don't like it, then tell her to stop doing it. She has no right to touch you without your permission, even if she is your boss. |
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I’ve seen this before and then the women gets pissed and flips the story around so it looks like you are the one doing these things to her.
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