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Dec 06, 2021, 04:51 PM
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For an administrated assistance at a music school. 12 hours a week. paid time off. medical bonus 100 a month. Brother says take it. Others say stay where I am. I'm undecided.
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Dec 06, 2021, 05:08 PM
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Well it sounds wonderful. Why would you not take it?
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#3
Dec 06, 2021, 05:45 PM
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It sounds good. Is it better or worse than what you have now?
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Dec 06, 2021, 06:10 PM
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How about pay? Is it less than your current job? Can you make it, pay your bills etc? If you can make it financially it sounds like a good job.
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Dec 06, 2021, 06:46 PM
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Well I have concerns they want me start training right away I said I could start in 3 weeks have to give notice. They took 3 plus months to offer me the job. The pay is 2.35 more an hour. My brother says take it. But I'm seeing if they'll adjust the schedule I before I actually give notice. It's M, W, F 10 to 2. I asked to switch to T, W, F. because I have a group at 11 on Mondays.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#6
Dec 06, 2021, 10:10 PM
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Avisa,
Having enough money to pay debts is significant for you. Is your monthly income going to be increased or stay the same? A decrease in income could get very stressful.
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Dec 07, 2021, 01:38 PM
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My monthly income would be less but what I'm spending to work this job may actually even out.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#8
Dec 07, 2021, 02:04 PM
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Plus didn’t you say you drive a lot?
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Dec 07, 2021, 04:26 PM
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yes I drive to clients house and get 23 mpg drive at least 100 miles a day, pee at gas stations, etc.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#10
Dec 08, 2021, 07:12 PM
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my current job just offered a raise effective Jan 2. like 1.75 more an hour! Now I want to stay. I work around my schedule rather than according to their schedule. What do I do? Stay or go?
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#11
Dec 08, 2021, 07:43 PM
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decided to stay with current job. just not wanting to change right now.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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#12
Dec 08, 2021, 07:48 PM
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1.75 is a nice raise.
I think it’s a good idea to stay. Driving sucks but I think you can find a different job later on if need to |
 Aviza
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