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Default Apr 03, 2024 at 03:14 PM
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I need out of my current field of work. I’ve had six different jobs in the last 10 years. I’ve never been fired, but I end up, hating the job for one reason or another, and move onto something else. I used to think that it was all about the work environment, the culture, or my boss. But I’ve started to realize that I just hate accounting in general. It’s sucking the life out of me and I don’t want to be stuck behind another spreadsheet ever again.

I want something completely different. I want to be outdoors, on a farm, working with animals, or some kind of a caregiver. I want to be creative, not analytical.
I want to be subjective, not objective. The problem is, I will most likely have to change everything else about my life, too, like where I live, and my lifestyle, because a change like this means cutting my earnings in half, at least. I’m totally OK with that, but I know my family is going to freak out and think that I’m having another episode, or something. Maybe I really am having another episode, or I’m just hypomanic.

So what do I do?

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Default Apr 03, 2024 at 05:11 PM
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One of the best nurses I had used to be in banking, high up in finance and made probably 4 -5 times what she made as a nurse. She was maybe in her 50’s when I met her and had been a nurse for about 7 years I think it was. So it’s entirely feasible to completely change careers and be happy. Decide on what you want to do and plan for it.

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Default Apr 06, 2024 at 04:49 PM
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One of the best nurses I had used to be in banking, high up in finance and made probably 4 -5 times what she made as a nurse. She was maybe in her 50’s when I met her and had been a nurse for about 7 years I think it was. So it’s entirely feasible to completely change careers and be happy. Decide on what you want to do and plan for it.
So very true!

That’s how my husband became a nurse. In his 40s. Not from finance field but science research field. He wanted for a long time but circumstances didn’t allow. He finally said I am done. And my mom switched careers completely at 50. She became a chef and restaurant manager. She was a civil engineer her whole life. They just pursued their either long time dreams or sudden urge. It’s never too late
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I need out of my current field of work. I’ve had six different jobs in the last 10 years. I’ve never been fired, but I end up, hating the job for one reason or another, and move onto something else. I used to think that it was all about the work environment, the culture, or my boss. But I’ve started to realize that I just hate accounting in general. It’s sucking the life out of me and I don’t want to be stuck behind another spreadsheet ever again.

I want something completely different. I want to be outdoors, on a farm, working with animals, or some kind of a caregiver. I want to be creative, not analytical.
I want to be subjective, not objective. The problem is, I will most likely have to change everything else about my life, too, like where I live, and my lifestyle, because a change like this means cutting my earnings in half, at least. I’m totally OK with that, but I know my family is going to freak out and think that I’m having another episode, or something. Maybe I really am having another episode, or I’m just hypomanic.

So what do I do?
Start searching for jobs on farms or the zoo? Sure your earnings might go down but you never know. You might make more eventually
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So very true!

That’s how my husband became a nurse. In his 40s. Not from finance field but science research field. He wanted for a long time but circumstances didn’t allow. He finally said I am done. And my mom switched careers completely at 50. She became a chef and restaurant manager. She was a civil engineer her whole life. They just pursued their either long time dreams or sudden urge. It’s never too late
I also know a woman who became a chef and restaurant owner after a long and successful career in software engineering at a FAANG company. She took all the risks and a pay cut to pursue a passion.

And I know a certified nurse midwife who retrained in later life after being a system administrator, another comfortable and well-paying career in IT.

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