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Monster on the Hill
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Nov 15, 2024 at 03:13 PM
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Is it appropriate to put "wanted to kill self after starting" or is there something else that works better?
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Nov 15, 2024 at 03:58 PM
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Geez. I had to have a big talk with my gp today about how i dont want cancer treatments because i would rather be unalive than sick. (They want to biopsy some calcifications.) I only saved myself by telling him about all my wonderful friends here and how we have imaginary holiday dinners together.
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Nov 16, 2024 at 09:47 PM
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something that works better for whom?
If the answer is "The employer" then that something could be a list of the three top-most reasons you felt that way. If the answer is "me," you'll have your answer after a few good nights' sleep. __________________ Major Depressive Disorder; Sleep Apnea; possibly on the spectrum Nuvigil 50mg; Effexor 37.5mg Wellbutrin 150mg; meds for blood pressure & cholesterol |
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Yesterday at 10:32 AM
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I'm trying to get into some state aid thing for getting back to work (which is fking stupid because I have trouble eating and risk killing other people everytime I have to commute somewhere which is basically everywhere) and it's asking for reason for last leaving previous places of employment.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Yesterday at 10:50 AM
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Okay, seriously. Maybe you can say something like "personality conflict" the follow it up with why that wont happen again? Lack of life goals, problem handling conflict. Inability to persevere - which youve certainly shown us now you DO have.
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Yesterday at 11:17 AM
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You don’t normally need to provide a reason. But if you need it for a record of sorts then you can say that you are leaving for health reasons. That wouldn’t be a lie. Or job demands are too overwhelming. Could also be “long commute”.
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Today at 05:03 AM
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Job wasn't a good fit, but be prepared to talk about why it was a poor fit - could be technical skills issue, organizational culture
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