((((( Salukigir l )))))))

What a loving granddaughter you are!

This is such a hard decision for you to make but only you can make it. If you do decide to go, perhaps if you make a little bit of a plan...

Do you drive or would you bus it? Either way you must make the journey for yourself there and back really enjoyable, like listening to lots of your favourite tunes, perhaps stopping along the way for a nice bite to eat or take a little picnic.

When I used to visit my relative, I always had something to do for him when I got there. For instance I liked to get him a coffee or juice and and sit out in the sun or sit with him at the lunch table or just take a little safe walk into the social area. A gift is always nice too. It takes time to open something and then finding a spot for it.

When I planned something 'to do', it always made it much easier and happier for both of us. It didn't have to be much. He liked a certain kind of chocolate bar, so I would bring him some. Even sitting with him while he ate and enjoyed it was a good time for both of us (I ate one too ). It's the little things. It needn't be a long visit. She likely tires easily.

On the journey back you can listen to some tunes in the car and make it a little trip out of it for yourself. Maybe stop again along the way back home, take a look around at the sites. Make the day special for you too, not just your Grandma.

The other night I watched the movie: The Notebook. It was kind of beautiful in a way. Someday, maybe it will help you if to watch it, if you get a chance.

IS