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Originally Posted by aquagrl11
so i tell my friends that i have had sex before, but really I have not. I feel so left out for not having sex yet and I am 18 years old. I had one opportunity but I was really nervous and it just didn't end up working out. But now I am so scared for when my first time actually comes. help  |
Having sex shouldn't be a competition or a right of passage. Just because some of your friends and ppl you know may or may not have had sex doesn't mean that you have to as well in order to be deemed "normal". Sex is something special and you should wait till you are emotionally mature to handle it. For some women it is a very emotional experience having sex for the first time or even the 1000000000 time. I think that you would want your first time to be special and with someone that is "in love" with you and cares about you. Let the first time you have sex be when you are truly ready for it and you have taken the necesary precautions like birth control and condoms. Don't let what your friends or other ppl force you into having sex or make you feel like you dont fit in!
Please wait till you have thought about things and you have found a wonderful person to have sex with that is "in love" with you!
