Hi Lynn,
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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I think some people have trouble understanding shy people and they misinterpret the shyness - as you don't like them and that's why they want you to change, so they'll feel more comfortable. If you're happy being introverted then that's okay. When I was a child up to 22 yrs., I was painfully shy and didn't like the way, it held me back. People used to think I was stuck up, but actually I was just scared. I learned to manage my shyness, but I would still call myself introverted though. AS long as you're comfortable with it, then don't care what they say. 
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I think Shyness and being Introverted are not necessarily the same things, though they
are often related. I say this because THERE ARE SHY EXTROVERTS too!!
From my understanding of introversion (and I happen to be one... an EXTREME one, lol) is that an introvert is someone who is mostly stimulated by things rather than by people.
Another way to look at is:
Extroverts are sort of like solar panels and Introverts are sort of like rechargeable batteries.
What I mean by that analogy is that Extroverts need to be around people on a frequent & regular basis in order to feel happy and energized. Introverts on the other hand, only need to be around others for a little bit, before they feel the need to retreat and be by themselves.
I know in my own experience as introvert, if I spend too much time around other people (and it doesn't take much for an extreme introvert like me, lol), I begin to feel over stimulated... and that's when I know I need my solitude, lol.
BTW... I am not a shy introvert by any means. I have no problems starting or engaging in conversations with people. I just don't need, nor want conversation or the opportunity to socialize as frequently as an extrovert.
For me... when it comes to socializing... hanging out with friends or family once or twice a month is enough to keep me happy ... any more than that, and well it's just too much and I start to crave my solitude.