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Originally Posted by hangingon
My T replied to my email, taking some blame, but telling me that its my unexpressed concern that affected our work. I just told her how it was affecting me, and look how she responded, would it really have made a difference if I told her 3 months earlier?
She admitted to her counter-transference and also said take not of your transference.
This is so frustrating.....
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Unexpressed concern?? You did express your concern! I don't think it's at all unusual for people to hesitate to address concerns about their therapist's behavior. It's hard to do that...feels very risky. Her reaction is exactly why it is so risky.