Shangrala......I wasn't going to chime in on this but now kind of feel compelled to do so...lol.

I married a man who is 21yrs younger than myself. He is the same age as my oldest daughter. I truly felt (and still do feel) that he was/is my soul mate.

Unfortunately, we are not together after 6 years of marriage. It fell apart a little over a year ago. It was a long distance marriage and there were so many issues with getting him here to the states that it really bogged us down and my husband came to the point of hopelessness. There was nothing I could say or do that could change his mind at that point.

For five wonderful years though, we had a fabulous relationship. We talked deeply, spiritually, heart to heart and soul to soul. He was by far the best lover I had ever had in my life. I never knew what real passion was until him. And I don't only mean sexual passion either.....I mean passion for everything.

As sad as it is that our marriage has not endured all things as we had hoped it would, I would never trade the time I had with him nor the feelings and emotions that went through me during that time.

I pray that your relationship goes the distance. It can be done, but like any relationship..it takes work on both sides. Enjoy each other and the moments you share, for life is short and you must grab for the ring at every opportunity!


sabby