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Originally Posted by marjan
Life will go on no matter what we do...It's better to choose to be happy and peaceful rather than sad and disturb....to be happy is better to eliminate those who are taking our happiness away even though we like them...what is this liking? liking somebody who makes you misrable? what is the friendship with such a person even? that's not a friendship...the basic of friendship is to care about each other and be for each other...if that gets violated, then there is no friendship left!
I'm getting stronger after my birthday....now that he didn't say happy birthday to me, I know for fact that he stopped all communication with me....he showed me that he doesn't care about me at all even as a friend....well, I want to get rid of him too....I'm rolling back the time now....I blocked those girls who are his friends and added me to facebook after me start dating with him....now I got rid of three of them so far....and tonight, I'm going to block one more....then very soon, he will go to my block list...although, I might see him in the dance class, but I'm giving myself time to delete him from my memory completely and remove all the emotional attachments....then I'm more relaxed to see him and be around him even in the class!
Anyway, stay strong and you will find that special person....you don't need to go dating right now....I'm not into dating stuff right now either...I can't just jump from one relationship to the other one...it doesn't work for me...we need to heal and get our positive energy back, then good and positive people will get attracted to us
take care and love yourself
Marjan
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You are doing Good Girl,Your very strong. Yep agree on the Dating stuff, Im the same way. Honestly I dont care about finding that special person.
I would rather be alone. I know I will always care about him , we will be friends for life. He is there for me as a friend, So thankfully hes not a jerk.
Its a complicated situation but We are there for each other as friends and hewill always be in my life, he is like family with my family. He doesnt make me miserable, its just the complicated situation. Hes always been a dear friend to me , we have a long history together. Hes not just a guy I met .
We became close friends before anything else. So I just try and take it day by day and hope things work out. Im glad you are doing better.
Take care also, you deserve wonderful things.