NLD1179, I am going through something similiar sans the sore throat. I went out with someone else's boyfriend who is a felon, crackhead, liar, thief and a cheat as well as on parole. Not exactly man of the year eh? LOL I had to say goodbye to him in my journal because his girlfriend stalks him everytime he comes near. Next time he comes near (and crackheads always do) I'm not opening that door! As a matter of fact I want the opposite. I want a soft, gentle, drug free, intelligent, funny, cute sexy woman. So if you meet any, send 'em my way (grin). I'm just going to get heavily involved in my lesbian coffee club and my lesbian reading club. You know, I almost feel sorry for his girlfriend...he's gonna tear her life apart. She knows what I know about him and still she stays!? I tried to actually help her and tell her what this drug does to people but she wouldn't listen. She's gonna have to learn the hard way...first hand unfortunately.