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Originally Posted by soccerball
The comment about T's saying things "just to make us feel better" and that it might not be a bad thing really go me thinking...sometimes it does seem helpful to have reassurance just for the sake of getting to a better place, but when it really comes down to it, I want to trust that my T DOES care, not that she says things only because she is doing her job.
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I agree with this, soccerball. My T knows (because I've told him a million times) that it is a HUGE DEAL to me that he be honest with me. I would rather have him say something that is hard to hear, but honest, than say something "nice" that isn't true. It's actually probably one of the biggest deals in therapy to me...that he's honest. I really think he is. It took a long time for me to really trust that, though.