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Old Sep 06, 2009, 10:57 PM
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you're right, it does often cause distress... i have tried to go in and help sometimes but it gets overwhelming. It's like people swoop out of nowhere and one person cant do it all..

when in need of support it is far better to seek out the people you feel safe with and request their help privately...

i really recommend that people find people to help in this way rather than support room... one on one and no interruptions is better.

i'm sorry you had trouble there sweetie

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Originally Posted by Pup View Post
I find that the support room causes more distress for many people rather than making them feel better.

I also find that the support room is often used as the wrong room.

I'm not even sure what can be done about this.

Maybe discuss it here about what others think about the support room, and if they would like anything done to help change this and make others feel better about using the support room for the reason it is there, etc.
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