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Sep 14, 2009, 01:45 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Although it might be the ideal solution, I'm not sure your boss would be in favor of barring a paying customer from the bar. If you can simply tell yourself that this guy has problems beyond your ability to help, then maybe you can let it go at that. I dated a guy once and something occurred during one of our dates that really embarassed him. I won't go into what it was cuz it would take a while to explain it. But after the date, I never heard from him, I would see him but he acted like I didn't exist.
This is how some people deal with emotions they can't handle. I never understood how a grownup, mature person could simply turn off like that but they do. It's how they survive.
Just keep telling yourself, "It's not me. It's not me." Realize that whatever it is, it's much, much bigger than you. See if you can not take it as personal.
Turn him over to God. 
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 Vickie
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