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Old Sep 14, 2009, 07:04 PM
Lenny Lenny is offline
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Originally Posted by Vickie in Phoenix View Post
This is how some people deal with emotions they can't handle. I never understood how a grownup, mature person could simply turn off like that but they do. It's how they survive.

Bingo Vickie....excellent perception.

Shame is a vicious emotion,,,it takes a simple mistake and cascades it into Niagra....

I would find a moment when you can talk quietly with him and simply tell him that you are sorry that he cannot be your freind because you are his...

When all things fail,,,give Love without expectation....actually its better if you do this first.....

Lenny
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Sobriety date...Halloween 1989.
I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one...