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Oct 17, 2009, 05:14 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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Quote:
Originally Posted by leacon
I feel that I I feel that I can not do what I should be able to do for my parents.
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Where does this "should"come from?
Is it your own expectations for yourself?
Those of your family?
"Should" is a word you need to be careful of.
Is it WRONG that you're not the person your sister wants you to be? As a sister I would always love me sister as who she is even if she's not who I'd want her to be. I don't think it's wrong that you're your own person, and that you're sick with depression right now. It's OK to be who you are, with your own personal limitations.
I think you might need to re-define your perception of "should"
Many hugs to you, I know you're going through a lot 
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