I think you really have to get right inside of the feelings, study them and then try to understand what they mean. What do these feelings say about you?

I tried thinking of the apsects of my feelings and they are, in essence, me. Who I want to be...how I want to love...The feelings are very giving, accepting and unconditional. They are all about love and the pure form of love. When I thought about those factors, I began to understand that this is what I have always strived to attain in my relationships with others. It is also a love I feel that everyone deserves to be given, though it is likely too perfect to very often come to realization. So, for me, it is all about the capacity within myself to love others and the way I want to love them. I discovered that capacity within myself within our relationship. The love I feel for him is my potential. The romantic feelings represent the potential for positive things happening... with people you don't expect...and at times and places when you least expect it to...if your mind is open to the possibilities. I still feel awed by it really. It did wonders for my sense of self-worth. I think I've written this before, but looking into his eyes and recognizing the sweetness of my feelings for him intensified the good feelings I had about myself. Very positive stuff.

I want to add that the feelings are very real. I adore him and always will.

Anyhow...get right inside those feelings and try to connect them to you in some manner. Try to understand the whys and you'll find out a whole lot about yourself...what you need, desire...your motivations...what is important to you. It's kind of cool really.