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Originally Posted by notsohot
It's not that easy just to throw him out. We've lived together for 10 years, I'm more willing than that to work on it. I just need to know how. I wish he could step up to the man plate. We don't yell at each other. I was physically, verbally and emotionally abused as a child by my mother, and don't like to revisit that - ever.
It feels like I'm pulling a sack of potatoes behind me all the time. It's tiring. Why can't he pull me sometimes?
I think I'm just going to stop doing everything. If the house is messy and his ***** is all over the place, that's fine. I'll learn to live with it. If it gets too dirty, maybe I'll move out. At least I have friends that'll help me out. He only has his mom, no friends.
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I understand that this is very tiring. I think that you shouldn't feel guilty about anything. There could be something wrong if he doesn't want to take care of himself. From what you are saying it sounds like your husband is playing the role of a child. He's not a child, and he could show you some respect by helping out. sometimes we need to be tough on a person to make them realize what they are doing.
