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Originally Posted by Jess Petty
im seriously not getting how using the terms "bone" or "bang" is offensive.
it pretty much just means "to have sex." what's the big deal? it's not like i
was using terms to disrespect anyone. i just used them in the context of
"having sex."
"i want to bang that chick" is basically just saying "i would like to have sex
with that female." how is wanting to have sex disrespectful? it's natural to
want to have sex.
other than that i basically got ya guys. ive pretty much given up on the idea
of an open relationship. not talking to volleyball girl. only sexing up the
girlfriend. everyone wins.
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Personally, I wasn't offended by your choice of descriptions of wanting sex.
(Your "terms" is slang I've heard ages ago. My brothers & other boys used those when they were in their emotionally pre-developed years, so I associate those terms with those who haven't yet reached maturity), and I take that into consideration.
I don't offend easily. But I can't say that for many other's. (But, ehhh...You'll understand our (member's offended) meanings sometime later in your years).
It's a matter of projecting respect for those you are confronting. You've come here seeking advice yet blatantly offend some in the process.
It would seem to me that for those who have had the concern of responding to you with their assistance, (especially to those who've expressed they were offended), you would at least have the consideration for them in return to offer an apology?
Just a thought.
Good to know that you've decided to "sex up" only the girlfriend, (lol).
You both will benefit from that decision.
Shangrala
