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Old Dec 07, 2009, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by silentandscared View Post
ok................. are these tests, am l being tested and pushed to my very limits just to see what will happen because right now this is so not funny l thought l was doing all the right things but now l am falling back to old thinking....am l being punished for something, is this what l deserve.

we have no money.............he has decided to quit his job ( so hey no maintenance) wanted me to write his quit notice, the phone rings none stop people wanting money, they are gonna take my house.......... the pnurse she keeps making apponiments with me then cancelling as something more urgent comes up.............we have no T right now cus she quit..........pdoc cant see me for months and dodnt know where will get money for next lot of meds from............... today they say cholesterol is high and blood sugars too all the proper food costs too much and then tonite he calls to say he will take back the car on friday

please please no more................this is so not funny and my strength and resolve is so low right now........................please someone anyone answer this cus l just want to give up right now

im sorry

Sas I'm so sorry this is all happening now ... when you've been so strong and getting on so well. Right, firstly don't think about all these things in one go ok? Deal one at a time ... you will be entitled to help somehow, do you rent? is it a mortgage? do you have any insurances on your mortgage? That's the first thing you need to find out, if you do they will pay your interest (my friends are going through this).

Secondly, go to your citizens advice bureaux, they were fantastic with me, they will advise you on what to do first .... come on Mandy you can do this, look at everything you have been through, the citizens advise are there to help FREE .... use them. I'm not sure about your details about the car? Is it on HP? pm me if you like with the details? Thinking of you hon, Kerry xxxxps dont sit worrying about it all, you'll make yourself worse, call the CAB first thing sweetie, try to relax tonight (I know it's hard)I've been through all this over the last year ... I know how you feel xxxx
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