I'm impressed at how well you know yourself, Loveregardless, and I applaud your move to get help wth the coping skills. I was thinking, when i heard about the phone call, that this talk doc doesn't have a lot of self confidence. It sounds like she is afraid of dealing with a possible multiple client and doesn't know how to handle the situation. while I would agree about not seeing her again, you might want to drop her aline and say why. She should know how her way of handling this came across to you and how it hurt you. Otherwise she has no choice but to bummble on to the next client. (((((((loveregardless)))))) glad your other alters seem to like the baby