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Old Feb 27, 2010, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by lonegael View Post
I'm impressed at how well you know yourself, Loveregardless, and I applaud your move to get help wth the coping skills. I was thinking, when i heard about the phone call, that this talk doc doesn't have a lot of self confidence. It sounds like she is afraid of dealing with a possible multiple client and doesn't know how to handle the situation. while I would agree about not seeing her again, you might want to drop her aline and say why. She should know how her way of handling this came across to you and how it hurt you. Otherwise she has no choice but to bummble on to the next client. (((((((loveregardless)))))) glad your other alters seem to like the baby
i think what lonegal said here is likely what happened. from what i've learned hanging out here on PC not all Ts are comfortable, let alone trained, in dealing with DID. she probably was just way out of her comfort zone and didn't know how to help you. i agree that going back to her would likely not be beneficial for you.

i know others here have shared that when they found their T they made sure the T was either a specialist in dealing with their issues or at least familiar enough with the area to be able to help them with the issues. i'm sorry you had such a weird and unpleasant experience with this T after being so open with her. it takes a lot of courage to open up like that. there are some good Ts out there but it can take some searching to find one that is a good fit for you. if you think therapy can help then please don't give up on trying to find a good T. feel free to join some of us in the psychotherapy forum where we talk about this stuff quite a lot.