hi bashfull, i can understand the ANXIETY you faced, but YOU DID IT!! i like having my husband do the errands that envolve being in public, and have to sometimes deal with the hostility he has to "shoulder" everything, because "whats hard about going to the store?" i want to rip his head off, its hard when the spouse doesnt understand the physical and mental toll it takes on us. happy you overcame it, im sure that IS PROGRESS and thats what is important. take care