actually no you do not have to list anyone in the begining as the father to get medicade and stuff like that..
trust me you dont..
and honey it is your place to tell hte wife if you are carrying his child.. he has to pay for it weater he likes to or not..
I have ben there done that..
he has to grow up sooner or later..

do not give in to his child like behavors ok.

Trust me.. Make him be a man.. ok.

Lots of love to you.. I have been watching and reading this from the begining.. I am making my "wayward" father pay..

You can too..
just keep us posted.. but please do nto git "rid" of a child of any God..