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Originally Posted by Sannah
How would they deride you? You were describing your fears to them? So you think that your fear scared them?
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No, I was talking about what I think I was learning about how people behave. But at the same time I probably expressed my own anxieties indirectly, and they picked up on that. Some people do not like to deal with anxious or afraid people. Some people do not like to deal with others who are learning or improving.
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So this is a trigger too then? How you responded to their responses are triggered up?
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I am not sure I understand you here, Sannah.
In many cases I think person 1 is triggered (unconsciously) by person 2 and then person 1 acts in a way which triggers person 2 again! That creates an unhealthy spiral!
But if one manages not to get triggered and can see (or think they see) this happening, that can be a very enjoyable experience!