Hey, small peoples inside Complic8d, it is so good to read and see you. I am not sure where your adult has gone but you you surely are not lost...maybe just misplaced. I have talked to an adult Complic8d before and I know she would probably like to talk to you but it just will take some time. You have gotten triggered you say and you want someone to look after you. Can you post here again, soon?
Kasva and Anderson are so 'spot on'. It is hard and will take some time to trust but I'm pretty sure you can find your adult help soon, inside and out. Also, it probably helps to have your caring family around but it might take a bit more time to really get them 'in on' the whole picture and for that trust to take place. In the in-between time there are lots of adults here who can maybe help you figure out the 'triggers' a bit.
Thanks for typing and for bringing yourselves here.
Hunny
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Originally Posted by complic8d
I can't find "adult" help within me. I need to ask people on the outside to help me with something, coping with triggered feelings. But they cannot see that I am little and need guidance because I look very grown up. How do you explain that to people, that I may look grown up, but am really very young and scared? I want someone to take care of me, but in reality I am an adult who should know what to do. I am the orphan because I am all alone.  I don't want to be abandoned again, but I don't feel like I should exist because I should be grown up, I am ashamed.
Thank you for listening to me. |