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Originally Posted by jenkins09
What are you expecting to hear? Your motives are selfish and self-serving. If you're not satisfied in your marriage, go to your husband and tell him so. Go to counseling, if you can't afford it, go to church and talk to your pastor. There are other options available to you other than an affair.
As I read your post I see you making many excuses as to why you can't stop this affair and the truth is you don't want to. You want to cake eat, and your husband is going to pay in the end, if he finds out. I have been cheated on and it is devastating. I hope the happiness that you are experiencing now is worth it.
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quite frankly, we have grown in different directions. i don't expect to find sympathy, or even understanding, just some advice. no, i don't want to end it, it will end of its own accord. i don't go to church, and wouldn't seek advice from a religious source anyway. mainly, i am trying to understand how i came to be in the place i find myself. i have always always been a faithful person, and finding myself in this situation is hard for me to understand.
is it an escape from financial stress? is it just that i have grown away from him and it would have happend anyway? what caused me to change and take this route?
i spend a lot of time trying to deal with the guilt i feel. so, don't judge me, just try to help me understand why i have decided that walking around with a scarlet letter seems to be what makes me happy right now. it is totally out of character.