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Originally Posted by zooropa
I'm sorry, but I have a real problem with this. Rainbow IS dealing with her past, and working hard at it. That kind of "get over it" attitude is so invalidating and unhelpful. Trying to just "get over" the past without working through it doesn't work, period.
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I did not mean to be harsh.
Rainbow, you need to realize that a lot of people are not keeping YOU specially out, but they have their bondaries for everybody. Keep repeating this to yourself when in doubt. People have "secrets" because of themselves, not because of you. And if you respect them, there are more chances of getting closer to them.