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Originally Posted by Dreamer4ever
I did the most stupid thing and got intimate with a co-worker. We had been flirting for months and we ended up going out one night and one thing lead to another. He still talks to me but not in the same way. I feel stupid, used and humiliated. I can't stop crying. I am seeing a therapist but I live alone and I think about this guy constantly. I can't get him out of my head. I am getting angry now that he hasn't contacted me. It is so hard having to see him at work every day. Has anyone been through anything similar?
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Hi & Welcome, Dreamer4ever. I'm new here also.. This is my first reply to someone.. Just want to say that I've been there and it is not a place you want to be. Try to distance yourself from him don't let it go any further. When I went through it all I could think of was him but all he thought about was himself.. It was not a healthy relationship and ended badly. I got over it but it wasn't easy.
If he contacts you and you do get more involved with him, talk to your therapist about helping you to lay out some ground rules for yourself and with him.