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Originally Posted by grizmom
I agree with everyone else...your spouse doesn't have the right to tell you which websites you can or cannot visit. I would understand if you had a gambling problem and were visiting gambling websites and losing money or something serious like that, but you aren't doing anyone any harm by visiting here and venting your frustrations. You aren't using your real name either, so it's not like we even know who your husband is. Like was said above, don't give up so easily! Stick up for your rights...you are an adult and don't deserve to be treated like a child. Hang in there!!!  |
its not like he tells me every web site I can go to. He just doesnt like this one because once he called me an alcoholic. Well many times he called me that so I made a thread once while I was drunk about it and it ended up being more about him being abusive than about me drinking and THEN he read the d@mn thing from top to bottom and I was BUSTED. He was more hurt than anything. He is controlling but not in a mean way. You could say he has been abusive in the past but since he read that thread he has been a lot nicer. I wish I could just explain to him that this website for now is my therapy and that you guys are my friends and that this place isnt unhealthy. But he would never understand. thanks for listening.