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Originally Posted by bloom3
i think it would be good to come clean about the snooping as it doesn't sound like you are going to be able to stop doing it. if you don't want to come out and tell him you could make a joke like you still remember his passwords so if you wanted to snoop you could. that might prompt him to change his passwords.  |
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Originally Posted by Perna
I would pointedly suggest to him that he change his password. He'll understand the ramifications of the suggestion and realize what you may/may not have been privy too and that he needs to clean up his act (or not). You know enough now so you wouldn't be blindsided. Let him be himself and do whatever he's going to do. I think you're hurting yourself more by snooping and that's you hurting you? Rule #1, don't hurt yourself!
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I've tried this a few months ago as a friend of mine had seen the password saved on my computer and this friend would go in and write **** about him because she didn't like him at all. I pushed and pushed him to change the password until he finally told me he did.. but he didn't. He gave me this password which in fact is the same for everything he has ever signed up for and I've told him I could go into any of his accs if I wanted to and he said he didn't care. I think in the end I just need to learn some self-control and distract myself.. because even if I did let him go I would still have the access. I didn't go on today though I went out and used up my day so when I got home I would be too tired to care. It worked.
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