I do belive that all marriages/long term relationships go through this...and not just once or twice....but consistenly. It takes a lot of work, a lot of pride swallowing and a lot of forgiveness and compromise. Relationships are a lot of work, but if you really love....well...you do what you have to do and hopefully learn how to make each other happy and secure during the journey.

Anything worth having doesn't come easy.

Best wishes for you both.