GL,
You wrote,[...I did bad things over there...].
I happened to have followed your posts there and I do not consider what you posted to be doing a bad thing.
In fact, I consider all posts on a mental health forum to be a good thing, for support is much more than pleasing someone or reinforcing that they are right. There are a wide variety of individual differences that make a community of diverse and pluristic population a community where there is bound to have someone disagree or even be offended by another. But reasonable people do disagree and reasonable people can have dialog to work through disagreements. . That leads to as if the owner/moderator of a mental health forum is considering that tthey are doing a therapuetic intervention by expelling you from the community. Being that ostrcism is a psychological tactic that I consider to be antiquated and cruel, I wonder if the moderator of a mental health forum could think that ostrcism is a sound mental-health practice. I find no fault in you other than the faults that we all have. And if someone can be ostrcized by someone for saying what they do not want you to say, or for not saying what they do want you to say, then is the forum practicing the concepts of their own stated mission?
Lou
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