(((zoo))) I hate that these bad things are happening to you, so frustrating. As someone else said, ONE thing at a time. The thing that stands out is your vehicle...you can fix that. Brakes aren't that difficult, heck I've done them before out of desperation. Most guys know how to do a brake job, so ask around before you panic. If there isn't anyone, try the nearest technical high school....they are cheap and reliable for simpler repairs like this.