That really blows. I know the feeling about getting trashed for something that no one else in the world would have thought of. Don't for a damn second get down on yourself. He has some anger management issues and needs to get some help. You don't deserve to be in a emotionally abusive relationship. You have to tell him that he needs to find a councelor. Alot of people have those problems with money and such but they don't go treating their wives like that. It will tear you up inside. I can see that it already is.
Much hugs, support and courage to you. PM me anytime you want.
Shannan

People know a little about everything and alot about nothing.