Male BP, (physically) attractive, successful relationships in the (more remote) past. It just seems like all the women I meet both worth dating and willing to get to know me are, of course, not single. Need a way to figure out what I'm doing wrong.

Sometimes I read this forum and wonder why all the women who are sick of jerks don't just make a pact with all the men sick of idiots. The problem with depression is that you confuse wanting to be not depressed with wanting to be not single

I also fully realize that making a thread about this is pretty selfish as a lot of people have it a lot worse.

Should I be trying for women who are not single or married but don't have the best relationship? Should I just continue to try to meet new people, and slog through the ones I dislike? Spend my time on more useful things?