I know that there are many other 20-year-old virgins out there, especially among Asian girls like me. But every time I hear about others' sexual exploits, I get envious. I'm also constantly thinking about sex. I'm lesbian and I'm a bit shy around girls. (I'm not socially awkward. But you know what power a pretty girl holds. lol) Perhaps that's one of the reasons I'm still a virgin. I know for a fact though that I'm not ugly, quite the contrary, so this is not a self-esteem issue. Still, I'm really bothered about being a virgin. I'm liberal in my world view and laugh at the idea of saving myself for someone. But I don't like the idea of having sex with a random person you meet in a bar, either. Too much STDs going around these days. So, what should I do while I'm still not getting any sex? Is there anything that can make the wait less upsetting? (Please don't tell me to masturbate, though. I already do that a lot. XD)

Thanks.